Before starting therapy, Amsyar was a quiet boy who often seemed to be in his own world. He didn’t respond when we called his name or make eye contact when we tried to communicate. Most of the time, he preferred to play alone, occasionally mumbling or laughing to himself. Because he mainly used gestures to express what he wanted, it could be challenging to understand him — and when that happened, he would sometimes get frustrated or have tantrums.
An occupational therapist from Klinik Jawa recommended that we send Amsyar to Kuching Autistic Association (KAA), as therapy at government clinics wasn’t frequent. She explained that early and consistent intervention could make a big difference — and that guidance led us to where we are today.
Since joining KAA, Amsyar has shown wonderful progress. He is now calmer, more focused, and understands what is expected of him. Our mornings before school are much smoother, and his teachers share that he behaves well during classes. While he still experiences mood swings occasionally, his emotions are now easier to manage and his frustrations don’t last as long as they used to.
One of the milestones that made me especially proud was seeing him take initiative with something as simple as preparing food. When he wants fried chicken, for example, he takes the chicken out of the freezer, prepares the flour and utensils, and then comes to me using the “eat” sign. Although he remains non-verbal, he always tries to say “thank you, Mama” when I cook for him — a gesture that reflects his growing awareness and effort to connect.
To other parents on the same journey, my advice is simple: accept, adapt, and grow. No matter how challenging things may seem, there is always a way forward — and each
small step brings you closer to progress.